tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post6324520855136698130..comments2023-10-19T10:35:05.117-04:00Comments on Matchmaker in the Know: The Break-up or the Blow-off?Missmatchbloghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03399389457491284579noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-58492038464902632692007-04-03T03:40:00.000-04:002007-04-03T03:40:00.000-04:00I don't like white lies . I think the fact is fact...I don't like white lies . I think the fact is fact. I ever wrote on tallfriends.com that love disappears but leaving friendship.I just need the truth. You don't love me , but aslo don't cheat me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-21955396686027916892007-05-07T16:48:00.000-04:002007-05-07T16:48:00.000-04:00I've wondered the samehing, and it comes down to t...I've wondered the samehing, and it comes down to this: If you blow someone off, then once they confront you later on, they say "all you had to do is pick up the phone and call me." Well I don't believe that because when you pick up the phone and call, it becomes a battle, and feelings are still hurt and it's still uncomfortable. At least when you're blown off , or blow someone off, you can both head in different directions without all the drama. If someone was really into you, they wouldn't blow you off so hopefully they get the picture.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-82712016631131856602007-07-24T16:15:00.000-04:002007-07-24T16:15:00.000-04:00If you liked this blog you will also like www.dati...If you liked this blog you will also like www.dating101miami.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-83596384075862656822007-10-27T16:31:00.000-04:002007-10-27T16:31:00.000-04:00It depends how many times you've seen them, and, o...It depends how many times you've seen them, and, of course, if you've slept together. Generally, if you havent done the sex thing, I think whatever you want within reason is ok. If you have slept together, especially more than once or over a period of time, then an explanation is more necessary. I find that the explanation is truthfully usually when it comes right down to it, the same thing: I just dont have enough of that physical/emotional/chemical attraction that I like to feel. And if they say, well give it time, maybe it will come, that's true and it sometimes does, but the decision of when not to give it more time is personal, a person's own, and to try to badger someone into giving it more time may be natural if you've become attached, but is a little controlling, isnt it?<br>and the better you take it, the more likely they may consider they've made a mistake, no?<br>Also, sometimes the reason someone doesnt give that break-up speech is because they're not sure and want to keep their options open to change their mind as time goes on, and if your partner asks what's going on, it's ok to tell them exactly that, I think. Not wanting to see someone again at the moment is generally not a good sign, but sometimes people change their minds, and, again, the better you handle it the more they might think that you're someone they might like to be with. And if they dont, it wasnt meant to be, was it?<br>One of my stories I write is about a guy that has almost every woman attracted to him. That's what guys want, but you have to be careful what you wish for, as you might get it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-2559543153875105252007-10-29T17:37:00.000-04:002007-10-29T17:37:00.000-04:00When is ok to tell someone you are not interested ...When is ok to tell someone you are not interested anymore?<br>Dating is so hard because im always afraid to commit. <br><br>mark slater <br><a href="http://friendfinder.com/go/g1930" rel="nofollow">santa fe dating service</a><br><br>Try Needafling.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-86070355985240329662008-02-08T19:03:00.000-05:002008-02-08T19:03:00.000-05:00This is a great post. When it comes to dating i th...This is a great post. When it comes to dating i think that there are a number of rules that people should or should not apply.<br><br>With that said, from my experience you can usually tell if a guy is blowing you off when he stops calling as frequently and then just stops calling at all<br><br>Its your job to wake up,smell the roses and see that your being thrown in the trash can.<br><br>Hot Alpha Female<br><br><a>www.hotalphafemale.blogspot.com</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5638736723673750636.post-16188360390892768562008-03-24T09:04:00.000-04:002008-03-24T09:04:00.000-04:00No, you don't have to lie.but it is only decent to...No, you don't have to lie.<br>but it is only decent to allow the one you are breaking up with to keep his self-respect and dignity.<br>He is already in a vulnerable position since you are the one initiating the break-up, but one should always be fair; even if some criticism might be justified.<br><br>After all, what you give is what you get.. ;)<br><br>Tinytoon<br>http://lovesurvivor.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com