Sunday, December 14, 2008

Does he like you?

He likes you... He calls you at 12 noon, the day of your date to confirm and tell you the plans.
He doesn't... He texts you at 6:15 about your 7:30 date, at the exact time that you thought for the 200th time that you wished you were strong enough to tell him that he is a piece of crap and that you aren't going out with him tonight or any night.

He likes you... he emails you 3 restaurant choices for your date.
He doesn't... he tells you to pick the place.

He likes you... he suggests a restaurant close to your apartment to make it easy for you.
He doesn't... he suggests a place one block from him apartment- super convenient for him and within his hook-up territory.

He likes you... he offers to come pick you up at your apartment and escort you to the date.
He doesn't... he emails you the name of the restaurant and tells you that he will see you there.

He likes you...he picks up that flip thing that we call a phone and he actually calls you to ask you on a date.
He doesn't...he perma-texts you from the time you meet until the time he goes on a date with you, never once picking up the phone and usually in one word grunts.

He likes you..he rearranges his schedule to fit you in and to see you, no matter what.
He doesn't, he says he's really busy and will catch up with you after the holidays.

He likes you...he remembers the important things you have told him (not everything because he is a guy, but the important things.)
He doesn't...he doesn't allocate brain space to remember that you are allergic to red wine and that you don't eat sushi.

He likes you... he is attracted to you no matter what you are wearing.
He doesn't... you could be standed stark naked in front of him, we wouldn't get an erection.

He likes you, he stops running from party to party looking for new girls.
He doesn't, he keeps on running...!!


  1. how about he doesn't like you and texts messages you to make the date and cancel it as well...he does this more than once and you still answer his text msgs :(

  2. dating is never this black and white. Reading into some of these things is useless. Sometimes men are busy and a women will have to adjust to his schedule to see him. Just because he is a busy guy doesn't mean he doesn't like her. You make it sound as if a guy who doesn't bow to a woman's every wishes than he doesn't like her which, simply is not true. The same standards could apply to women---and coming from a guy who has dated a lot of women, I can attest sometimes a lot of the doesn'ts are actually 'likes you.' For the most part you are putting misinformation out there that women will read and assume is correct. But it's not. Forget the over analyzing ladies. Your gut instinct knows best. If it feels right, it probably is. If it doesn't than it's probably not.


  3. hi, you have done a good work, it's a nice blog..
    Of course the little things means he really cares for you (remembering your allergies and what you like) but he doesn't have to call 12 at noon to confirm the date, just relax and don't over think about it.
    Sometimes a guy thinks that too much care and calls may freak the girl out or make her bored, if he tells you to pick the place that doesn't mean he doesn't like you, he just wants to take you to a place you like! it's that simple

    keep it up :)

  4. Some of these are accurate, but really, it is never this clear-cut. Sometimes things happen, and you have to make sacrifices too. You have to know the guy you're dating, dating will be completely different depending on who you're with.


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