Did you ever wonder why a guy who says he wants to be in a relationship spends more time trolling parties than trying to work on having a relationship?Here's what I know...
(1) You need to take time to be in a relationship and make it work.
(2) If you want to be in a relationship, you will be willing to give up a trolling night to be with a girl you like.
(3) If a guy is not willing to give up the trolling night, chances are, he is not into you enough to forego it.
(4) A guy might say that he trolls parties because he really wants to meet someone but there is a difference between hitting the occasional party and going to the opening of an envelope!
(5) Some guys troll for sport and because it's a game to them and others troll because they think it is a necessity. Either way, do you really want to be with that guy?
(6) You have been in situations before where when a guy is crazy about you, he drops everything and can't get enough of you. If the trolling guy can't do this, it's time for another guy.
this is a pretty simplistic view. the "trolling" guy cannot go from trolling (how he probably met you to begin with) to nothing at all over night. in some ways, the trolling is good because he will see that there's nothing better out there. if it's already at a dating exclusively point, that's a problem, but otherwise, let him troll - especially if you're taking your other advice to go slow and steady in the bedroom.
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